The group reading about the Pirates Lair |
We did sail with Sun
Cat the few miles to Capture
Beach and picked up
mooring balls as planned. We decided to
hike the trails here which we had never done before. Right off the beach where we landed there was
this marvelous swing seat someone had made from netting, rope and a perfect
tree limb.
Pat enjoying the swing. |
We each had to take a photo
opt there. Following the trail we came
to a neat area called the Pirates Lair.
It is a spot that pirates used to hide from people. It even had a natural well.
Onward we trekked through some very rough terrain following
the trails. We had all commented how the
rocks were very precarious and that we had to be careful. We made it to a few beaches where Pat and I
are always looking for treasures but knowing this Land and Sea Park is a no
take zone, we were just window shopping!
The four of us debated whether to go back the same trail which we felt
was very difficult or walk along the rocks near the beach. It was low tide so we decided it seemed
flatter along the coast and off we went.
It did not seem any worse than the trail but suddenly I heard Pat scream
and I turned quickly to see her fall full force with her body onto the rocks in
about a 2 ft. deep hole. She did not
have any time to even put her arms out to break the fall. She had hit her trunk
of her body and head very hard. We all came quickly to her aid, but she was
badly hurt. We sent Al to get the dinghy
and our VHF radio. (We should have had
it with us and we will never hike without it now.) By the time he got back which was about 15
min. later, Pat was going unconscious.
We called for medical help through the Park Office and asking any
boaters for assistance. One gentleman on
Proud Mary came with an AED machine
and first aid kit. I had started CPR
when we could not get a pulse. The AED
machine said, do not shock. We thought
it meant she had a heart beat, but we learned it meant there was no heart beat
so that there is no reason to shock. It
only gets an arrhythmic heart beat back to regular beats. Finally the park people came with a stretcher
and they transported her over to Bell Island by boat where they had a private helicopter
take her and Tom to Nassau.
(We were lucky that there is
construction on Bell
Island so they have a medic
and the helicopter. The Park Managers
made a few quick calls and were able to secure it or it would have taken a lot
longer.)
However, all our efforts were in vain because our dear
friend did not make it. This person who
was so full of life and friendly to everyone was taken by this tragic
accident. The only solace is that she
was in a beautiful place doing the things she liked doing when she went with
the Lord. And I try to remember this
quote:
He whom we
love
and lose
is no longer
Where he was before.
He is now
wherever we are.
- St. John Chrysostom
and lose
is no longer
Where he was before.
He is now
wherever we are.
- St. John Chrysostom
Pat touched so many people in her life. Al and I nicknamed her “The Firecracker”
because she had so much energy and was the friendliest person we have ever
met. Ask any cruiser who ever came
across her. She told me just recently
“Life is too short to be negative. Enjoy
life and be thankful for all you have.” I
will take that to heart and know she will always be with me wherever I am.
Pat looking for shells, one of her favorite things to do. |
Pat Thorpe
1938-2013
Pat and Tom during happier times. |
2 comments:
So incredibly sad and sorry to hear about the loss of your dear friend. Our prayers go out to all of you and her family.
Our hearts ache for you and Al and for Tom in your terrible loss. We will remember Pat's wise words, her "Firecracker" enthusiasm and your beautiful quote.
With our sincere sympathy,
Radeen and Hayden
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